Push, Pull, and the Lessons of Middle Age

In your late teens and 20s, the choices you make with food and training will stay with you. Strength coach Mike Boyle shared the best advice I know when it comes to body composition, and it is especially true in your 20s. 

Learn the Push. 

Push the table away. Push the extra beer and pizza away. 

Build the discipline now to keep fat cells from multiplying.

Why? Because once you create fat cells, they don’t just disappear. Fat cells act like balloons. When you overeat, it is like blowing air into the balloon and it expands. 

When you train, eat better, and lose fat, you don’t pop the balloon. You simply let the air out. It shrinks, but it never disappears. 

That is why learning the skill of Push early is so valuable. But even if you did not learn it in your 20s, it is not too late. 

The ability to push away what does not serve you is a practice you can strengthen at any age.

By the time you reach middle age, the Pulls of life become more obvious. 

Careers get busier, parents get older, kids need more of your time, and financial pressures pile up. At the same time, your body starts sending reminders — tighter hips, rounded shoulders, slower recovery. 

Strength coach Dan John sums up the solution perfectly: Stretch what’s stiff. Strengthen what’s weak. For most of us, that means:

  • Stretch: hip flexors, hamstrings, pecs, biceps
  • Strengthen: glutes, ab wall, deltoids, triceps

Over six years ago, Sifu Mimi and I started a video blog series called 40 Fit-Fu. We recorded more than 100 episodes on training, nutrition, and health. 

If you scroll to the bottom of the playlist, you will find our final episodes where we looked back at the first ones and shared how our approach has evolved. 

Training is a lifelong process. What works at 20 might not be what you need at 40, and what you build at 40 sets you up for your 60s.

Kung Fu gives us a clear example of this principle. 

The iron bridge stretches what needs lengthening while strengthening what needs support. 

It is also a classic Push-Pull exercise: pushing the hips up, pulling the shoulders back. That combination is exactly what keeps us strong, mobile, and balanced through every stage of life.

See you in training,

Sifu Oscar

 

P.S. The principle of stretching what is stiff and strengthening what is weak starts on day one. That is what our Foundations program is all about. This is also remote coaching through our app, with daily actions and accountability built in. Reply with Foundations and I will get you started.

 

P.P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals.
Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.

Principles of Transformative Health

Here are some foundational principles on achieving your health goals.

Whether you’re focused on building lean muscle or fat loss, these principles apply to anyone striving for a healthier lifestyle.

Principle 1: Create A Caloric Deficit

Successful diets often revolve around this principle, which involves consuming fewer calories that your body burns. If you need to gain weight, then you need a caloric surplus by consuming more calories than your body burns, thereby providing the necessary energy for muscle growth and overall weight gain. 

Principle 2: Positive Nitrogen Balance

Increase your protein intake to maintain muscle mass while achieving your fitness goals.

Principle 3: Anabolic Signaling 

A fancy term that basically means you engage in resistance training to signal your body to maintain and build muscle. 

It’s as simple as that! These three principles lay the groundwork for your journey towards a healthier you. 

In the short video below, I delve deeper into the importance of these 3 principles.  

I believe you’ll find the insights valuable for your health journey. Take amount to watch it here:

FAT LOSS PRINCIPLES

If you have any questions or need further clarification on anything discussed, feel free to reach out. 

Sifu Oscar

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals. Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.

7 Nutrition Tips For Continued Fat Loss

How is the year going so far?

If fat loss or building lean muscle was a goal for the new year, these 7 tips are for you!

  1. Foods Are Your Best Friends: Start loving whole foods in their natural state. Why? They’re less likely to lead to overeating compared to processed foods, which are a bit too tempting and easy to consume in large quantities. Whole foods keep things simple and clean for your body.
  2. Protein – Your Secret Weapon: Make protein a staple at every meal. Mixing up your protein sources not only maximizes energy and trims your waist but also assures you’re always performing at your best. Think of protein as your loyal ally in the battle against fat.
  3. Size Matters in Meals: Here’s a little secret – eating larger meals less often will leave you feeling fuller than snacking frequently. Confused? Use the 3+ strategy: three satisfying meals, and forget about the 5-6 small meals a day. Trust me, it’s a game-changer.
  4. Go Nuts for Nuts: Snack on nuts! They’re not just tasty; they keep you full, are packed with essential nutrients, and here’s the kicker – your body doesn’t even access all the calories in them. It’s like a nutritional magic trick!
  5. Minimize Alcohol – Seriously: Alcohol is a triple threat to fat loss – it disrupts metabolism, is calorie-dense, and let’s be honest, leads to some not-so-great food choices. Stick to healthier options and watch your fat-loss efforts pay off more effectively.
  6. Sleep is Non-Negotiable: Underestimate sleep, and you’re inviting sugar cravings and a hungrier you. Plus, insufficient sleep hampers your body’s ability to burn fat efficiently. Embrace your sleep like a precious resource.
  7. Plan and Prepare: Without a plan, you’re planning to fail. It’s that simple. Plan your meals for the day or week. This small habit can be the difference between succumbing to temptations and sticking to your fat-loss goals.

Sifu Oscar

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals. Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.

Cracking The Code for Fat Loss: A Tactical Approach

Hello, Friend!

When shedding excess fat, the core idea is pretty straightforward: you’ve got to eat a bit less than your body uses. Think of it as getting your body to use its stuff for energy when food is insufficient.

A Tactical Approach:

  1. Finding the Right Amount to Eat:
  • You kick things off by figuring out how much food keeps your weight steady. After two weeks of keeping a close eye on what you eat, if your weight stays put, that’s where we begin. Cut 20%, and that’s your new goal.
  1. Taking Care of Your Muscles While Losing Fat:
  • You want to keep your muscles safe while shedding the extra fat. This means making sure you eat enough protein. Picture 1 gram of protein for every pound you weigh. If you’re not a big fan of protein foods, you can dial it down a bit.
  1. Sending a Clear Signal to Keep the Muscles:
  • Communicate with your body through weight training. It’s like telling your body, “Hey, keep these muscles; they’re important!” You focus on lifting weights that challenge you but don’t push too hard.

Other Important Stuff:

  • You get to choose whether you prefer more carbs or more fats. The idea is to make a plan that you can stick with.
  • Start with 3 meals and maybe 1 snack a day. You can change how often you eat every two weeks. Some people like smaller meals more often; others like bigger meals. It’s all about what works for you.

Special Training:

  • Use resistance training to create an additional metabolic effect. It helps keep the muscles you have and get stronger. Focus on exercises that keep you engaged and moving.
  • If there’s time, add exercises that make your heart beat faster, like swings or battle ropes.
  • And don’t forget a daily walk, just 10 minutes after meals. It’s super helpful.

Extra Boosters:

  • Simple vitamins like a multivitamin, vitamin D, and fish oil can be a good idea. And if you need extra protein, a protein shake can help, but think of it more like a food choice than a special supplement.

Summing It Up:

  • If protein intake and total calories are the same, all diets will result in the same rate and amount of fat loss. The secret is finding a plan that suits you, and your busy lifestyle.

Fat Loss Emphasis:

  • For fat loss training the primary goal is to maintain muscle when in a caloric deficit. Burning calories is a secondary goal. Weight training first, cardio a distant second.

Remember, it’s not just about losing fat; it’s about keeping your strength up on this journey.

Stay strong, stay focused.

Sifu Oscar

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals.
Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.