Tag: personal growth

Control Corner 12 from Sifu Oscar: Structure Sets You Free

Oscar AgramonteSifu Oscar's Blog

Welcome to the Control Corner, where the flipped ‘Fire’ character inspires us to focus and take control. Whether it’s martial arts, health, or everyday life, we’re here to guide you on the path to mastery. Let’s begin this week’s journey!

Essentials: Structure and creativity might seem like opposites, but they work together beautifully. As the book Think Faster, Talk Smarter points out, structure can actually enhance spontaneity. It gives you a foundation for creativity while keeping your communication clear, concise, and focused.

Why It Matters: When our Wah Lum instructors are teaching – whether it’s during a Kung Fu or Tai Chi class –  the structure of the basics ensures our message lands effectively. 

One simple yet powerful method is “What—So What—Now What.” 

Start with your point (What), explain why it matters (So What), and end with actionable steps (Now What).

What’s Next: Try using this structure in your own training. 

For example: What? Joint Mobility improves your movement. 

So What? It reduces injuries and builds strength. 

Now What? Start a daily joint routine to stay healthy and strong.

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals. Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.

Control Corner 11 from Sifu Oscar: Cultivating Awareness for Success

Oscar AgramonteSifu Oscar's Blog

At Wah Lum, the flipped Chinese character for ‘Fire’ reminds us that control is the key to mastering life’s challenges. Welcome to the Control Corner, where we share weekly wisdom to help you unlock your potential.

Essentials: Awareness isn’t about waiting for the right moment—it’s about tuning into the present, especially as life gets busy. By focusing on what you can control now, you’ll create a solid foundation for success, whether that’s with fitness, nutrition, or stress management.

Why It Matters: Many of us approach vacations or holidays with a “survival mode” mindset. But with awareness, you can maintain stability without feeling overwhelmed. Being mindful of your responses to everyday stress can help you stay focused on what truly matters, making the life more enjoyable and meaningful.

What’s Next: This week, take a few moments each day to notice what’s within your control. Simple actions like slowing your breathing, focusing on one task at a time, or grounding yourself in your surroundings can make a huge difference.

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals. Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.

Control Corner 4 from Sifu Oscar: Focus on What’s Within Your Control

Oscar AgramonteSifu Oscar's Blog

Welcome back to the Control Corner, where the journey to mastering your life begins. At Wah Lum, the flipped ‘Fire’ character symbolizes control, reminding us that focus and discipline are key to unlocking our potential. 

Let’s explore this week’s lessons!

Essentials: When life feels overwhelming, it’s easy to get caught up in trying to control things outside your reach. This can lead to frustration and distress. But often, we overlook the areas where we do have control – our behaviors, choices, and mindset.

Why it matters: Instead of stressing about the uncontrollable, ask yourself, “What is actually within my control right now?” Focusing on what you can control opens up space for clarity, new perspectives, and effective solutions.

More Info:This week, shift your attention to the behaviors and choices you know positively influence your life. Whether it’s your health, your martial arts practice, or even how you approach each day, taking control where you can will help reduce the noise of what’s outside your power.

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals. Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.

Control Corner 3 from Sifu Oscar: Find Your Fire

Oscar AgramonteSifu Oscar's Blog

Our weekly Control Corner is all about harnessing control in every aspect of your life. At Wah Lum, we use the flipped Chinese character for ‘Fire’ as a symbol of control—a reminder that true strength begins with mastery over ourselves. 

Let’s dive into this week’s insights!

Essentials: Award-winning chef José Andrés once shared a story about his father cooking Paella, a dish traditionally made over an open fire. As a child, José was in charge of the fire and didn’t like the task—he thought it was menial. His father corrected him: making the fire was the most important job. “If you control the fire,” his father said, “only then can you be a great cook.” 

Why It Matters: This lesson extends beyond cooking. If you can control the fire within—your passions, reactions, and mindset—you can be anything you want. Pay attention to what’s underneath, not just what’s happening on the surface. How are you reacting to life’s challenges?

What’s Next: This week, take some time to find and tend to your own fire. Discover what fuels you, and focus on controlling it to achieve your goals.

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals. Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.

Control Corner 2 from Sifu Oscar: Discipline Breeds Creativity

Oscar AgramonteSifu Oscar's Blog

Welcome to the Control Corner, your weekly dose of wisdom on mastering control in martial arts, health, and life. At Wah Lum, the flipped Chinese character for ‘Fire’ represents control—an idea central to everything we do. 

Let’s explore how focusing on what matters can help you reach your full potential.

Essentials: French novelist Gustave Flaubert once said, “Be regular and orderly in your life, so that you may be violent and original in your work.” His message highlights the power of discipline in personal life to unlock creativity and innovation in other areas.

Why it matters: Stability in your personal life – whether through routine, relationships, or self-discipline – frees you to be bold and daring in other areas. In your martial arts training, controlling the basics, you eliminate distractions and unnecessary complications, creating space for creativity and growth.

What’s Next: This week, focus on bringing order to your personal life. Simplify where you can, and watch how it frees up energy for your martial arts journey!

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals. Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.

New blog post series: Control from Sifu Oscar – at the heart of Wah Lum

Oscar AgramonteSifu Oscar's Blog

Welcome to this week’s edition of the Control Corner, where we explore the art of control – whether in martial arts, health, or life. At Wah Lum, the Chinese Character for “Fire” is flipped upside down to symbolize Control, a philosophy also woven into the Control Your Health logo. 

Each week, we’ll share insights to help you focus on what matters and unlock your full potential. Enjoy!

Essentials: In this section, we’ll explore the concept of Control. At Wah Lum, the Chinese character for “Fire” is flipped upside down to symbolize Control. The symbol is also used in the Control Your Health logo, honoring the deep-rooted philosophy passed down from Grandmaster Chan. Check out Sifu Mimi explaining a little bit more about Wah Lum Philosophy HERE

Why it matters: Control begins with self-awareness – understanding what’s truly important to you. While you can’t control everything, you can focus on the things within your reach, like your health and martial arts practice.

What’s Next: Stay tuned for more insights on Control in our weekly blog. For now, start your week by reflecting on what truly matters to you!

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals. Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.

Step Back, Reflect, and Realign

Oscar AgramonteWah Lum

Kung Fu and Tai Chi teach us the value of reflection and intentional action. 

This month, I challenge you to carve out a few hours to step back, reflect, and realign your focus.

Here’s how:

  • Find an inspiring space (a park, a quiet coffee shop).
  • Bring a journal and pen—no devices!
  • Spend time thinking and writing about the bigger picture of your life.

Start with these questions:

  1. Are my daily actions leading me toward my goals—or off course?
  2. What do my actions say about my true priorities?
  3. If my life were a movie, what would the audience be shouting for me to do?
  4. Am I focusing on meaningful goals or getting lost in busy work?
  5. What beliefs should I challenge to grow stronger?

Give this some time, and see how it transforms your mindset. 

Small shifts now can lead to profound changes later—just like a single degree in a kung fu or tai chi stance can make all the difference!

Let me know what insights you uncover—I’d love to hear from you!

Sifu Oscar

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals. Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.

Integrity and Environment in Training

Oscar AgramonteWah Lum

Let’s talk about two words that transform how we approach fundamental human movements and training: integrity and environment. 

These concepts aren’t just buzzwords; they’re essential to understanding how we navigate our training and, ultimately, our lives.

Integrity

Integrity isn’t just a moral principle—it’s about wholeness. In life, it means being the same person in every situation, doing what’s right even when it’s hard. 

These ideas come from strength coach Dan John, whose insights on movement and resilience have inspired the way I approach training and teaching. 

In training, integrity reminds us that the body is one unified system. Every movement you make—whether a punch, kick, or a Tai Chi flow—requires harmony in your entire being.

When we train, we don’t just strengthen individual muscles; we fortify our entire person. From the mind to the spirit, every part contributes to our athletic performance, our health, and our growth.

Environment

Your environment is everything around you, from the floor you stand on to the challenges you face.

At Wah Lum, the environment could be the training floor, an opponent, or even the crowd cheering (or distracting) you.

In simpler settings, like playing catch with a baseball, the environment might seem controlled—just you, the ball, and the person across from you. 

But in more complex situations, like sparring or navigating a chaotic crowd, the environment shifts unpredictably. 

It’s dynamic, ever-changing, and requires you to adapt while maintaining your integrity.

Why This Matters

At Wah Lum, our goal is simple: build you up. Not just physically, but mentally and emotionally, so you can face any situation with strength and balance. 

As we train, think about how these two ideas—integrity and environment—play a role in every move, every breath, and every decision.

When we flow through a Tai Chi form or execute a powerful kick in Kung Fu, we’re practicing unity within ourselves while adapting to the environment around us. This will help us thrive in martial arts and life’s challenges.

Keep these ideas in mind as you train. 

Be whole. 

Be adaptable. 

And let’s continue building the best versions of ourselves.

Looking forward to seeing you in class!

Sifu Oscar

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals. Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.

Step Into Your Future Self Today

Oscar AgramonteWah Lum

Imagine Your Future Self

Picture yourself as the focused and disciplined martial artist you’ve always wanted to become—strong, confident, and balanced in both mind and body.

Now, ask yourself: What would that version of you be doing today?

The truth is, your future self isn’t some distant dream. It’s the direct result of the choices and actions you take right now.

Here’s how to get started:

Clarify Your Vision – What does your ideal practice look like?

  • Are you mastering forms and techniques with precision?
  • Building strength, flexibility, and mindfulness?
  • Achieving goals that push your limits?

Train With Intent – Practice like you’re already that future version of yourself.

  • Would your future self skip practice, or would they commit fully?
  • Focus on movements, techniques, and habits that bring meaningful progress.

Make Future-Focused Decisions – Set a training routine, embrace challenges, and approach each session with a long-term mindset.

  • Are you reacting to setbacks, or are you growing from them?

Every day you show up, you’re building momentum. Your future self isn’t a far-off concept—it’s shaped by the choices you make today.

Start training as the person you want to become, and watch how quickly your practice transforms.

Your journey starts now—are you ready to take the first step?

Sifu Oscar

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals. Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.

Your Path to Progress: Small Steps, Big Impact

Oscar AgramonteWah Lum

If you’re not progressing as quickly as you’d like, here’s some food for thought. (And yes, I’m talking to myself too!)

Remember: 

You Are What You Do.

Consistency in small actions builds greatness. For example, if you train at the Temple an average of twice per week, try spending 5-10 minutes practicing the basics on the other five days. The compound effect will accelerate your improvement. 

Your Beliefs Shape Your Results.

Expect challenges, and they’ll show up. You might face injuries, illness, or even moments of discouragement. Preparing a list of things you can do – rather than focusing on what you can’t – can help you stay on track during difficult times. 

Knowledge Isn’t Power Without Action.

You have the tools, now it’s about using them. After reading this, ask yourself: What are you going to do? Read another email, scroll social media, or research secret kung fu training tips? How about spending five minutes on your Kung Fu or Tai Chi basics? 

Success is in Your Daily Choices.

What you choose now shapes what you’ll achieve later. The kind of martial artist you become depends on the actions you take today. 

Take Control of Your Progress!

Sifu Oscar

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals. Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.