Tag: Self-Mastery

Control Corner 13 from Sifu Oscar: Kindling the Fire Within

Oscar AgramonteSifu Mimi's Blog

This is the Control Corner, where every week we dive into Wah Lum’s philosophy of control—symbolized by the flipped ‘Fire’ character—and apply it to health, martial arts, and living your best life. Ready to take control? Let’s get started!

Essentials: In Greek mythology, Prometheus gave fire to humanity, a symbol of knowledge, power, and transformation. Plutarch built on this idea, saying, “The mind is not a vessel to be filled but a fire to be kindled.” These metaphors remind us that true growth isn’t about passively receiving information but actively nurturing curiosity, creativity, and self-mastery.

Why It Matters: Fire represents potential and power, but without control, it can burn out or cause destruction. In martial arts and life, cultivating your inner fire—your passion, focus, and drive—requires the discipline to direct it purposefully. Control isn’t about suppressing your fire but fueling it wisely so it burns bright and steady.

What’s Next: This week, think about your own fire. What sparks your curiosity or drives your goals? How can you stoke it with intention? Start by learning something new or challenging yourself in your practice—kindle your fire and watch it illuminate your path forward.

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals. Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.

Control Corner 3 from Sifu Oscar: Find Your Fire

Oscar AgramonteSifu Oscar's Blog

Our weekly Control Corner is all about harnessing control in every aspect of your life. At Wah Lum, we use the flipped Chinese character for ‘Fire’ as a symbol of control—a reminder that true strength begins with mastery over ourselves. 

Let’s dive into this week’s insights!

Essentials: Award-winning chef José Andrés once shared a story about his father cooking Paella, a dish traditionally made over an open fire. As a child, José was in charge of the fire and didn’t like the task—he thought it was menial. His father corrected him: making the fire was the most important job. “If you control the fire,” his father said, “only then can you be a great cook.” 

Why It Matters: This lesson extends beyond cooking. If you can control the fire within—your passions, reactions, and mindset—you can be anything you want. Pay attention to what’s underneath, not just what’s happening on the surface. How are you reacting to life’s challenges?

What’s Next: This week, take some time to find and tend to your own fire. Discover what fuels you, and focus on controlling it to achieve your goals.

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals. Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.