Tag: habits

Do your values match your behavior?

Oscar AgramonteMindset & Philosophy

Are you the type of person who keeps track of their macronutrients with a nutrition app, uses a fancy fitness watch for steps and activity, or maybe goes old school with a paper planner?

All of these have value because they give us a moment to think.

But a challenge is getting caught up in the exact metrics of our training. We want the perfect routine, with the exact number of reps to reach our goals. 

Taking a moment to think and plan is incredibly valuable, but have you noticed that if something is truly valuable to you, it shows up in multiple places?

Look around your life right now.

  • If you care about learning, books begin to pile up around the house.
  • If you care about people and community, gatherings start to happen naturally.
  • If you care about health, you suddenly find yourself walking more or making better choices without having to force it.

The same thing happens in your martial arts training.

If you value your Kung Fu or Tai Chi skill, you will find a way to practice… even if you can’t make it to the Temple to train. Someone who values movement will always find time to stretch, practice their forms, or simply play.

Your values leak into your behavior. 

This explains why overly complicated training systems or extreme diets almost always fail. They try to force a set of behaviors without ever addressing your underlying values. If you don’t actually value the outcome, no chart, tracking app, or new program is going to save you.

But once a value is clear in your mind, the system becomes incredibly simple. You don’t need external motivation to do the things that truly matter to you. They begin to show up on their own, seamlessly blending into your day.

I like to get steps in when I do yard work or am cleaning up around the Temple. I don’t need a complex system to make it happen; I value the movement, so the behavior follows.

I also value the amount of money I spent on the pants I currently own, so I usually turn down the extra serving of cookies or cake (not always! but usually).

Take a moment to look at your daily habits today. What values are leaking into your behavior right now?

See you in training,

Sifu Oscar

 

P.S. Make movement a value. People often fail to start training because they think they need a complicated system to begin. You don’t. You just need to show up. If you are ready to build a new habit, here are 2 ways I can help:

  1. See it for yourself: The best way to understand Wah Lum is to see it in person. Comment with OBSERVATION and we will set up a time for you to come visit a class.
  2. Start from home: Comment with FOUNDATIONS and I’ll send you the details for our 21-day remote prep program.

Control Corner 9 from Sifu Oscar: Start Small with Nutrition Now, Reap the Rewards Later

Oscar AgramonteControl Corner

Control is the foundation of growth—in martial arts, health, and life. Welcome to this week’s Control Corner, where we honor Wah Lum’s flipped ‘Fire’ character by sharing tools to help you master what truly matters.

Essentials: There’s no need to wait for the “perfect time” to focus on your nutrition. Small, consistent steps—like mindful eating and balanced meals—can set the stage for a healthier, happier lifestyle.

Why It Matters: Whether it’s holiday gatherings, birthday celebrations, or regular weekends, having a foundation of good nutrition habits helps you enjoy these moments without overindulging. Starting small now can prevent sluggishness, keep you energized, and align with your health goals year-round.

What’s Next: Try a simple, healthy swap or mindful eating tip each day. Take your time to tune into your body and how food makes you feel. If you’re looking for extra guidance, we’re here to help—just reach out and let us know you’re ready to take the next step in your nutrition journey.

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals. Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.

Step Into Your Future Self Today

Oscar AgramonteMindset & Philosophy

Imagine Your Future Self

Picture yourself as the focused and disciplined martial artist you’ve always wanted to become—strong, confident, and balanced in both mind and body.

Now, ask yourself: What would that version of you be doing today?

The truth is, your future self isn’t some distant dream. It’s the direct result of the choices and actions you take right now.

Here’s how to get started:

Clarify Your Vision – What does your ideal practice look like?

  • Are you mastering forms and techniques with precision?
  • Building strength, flexibility, and mindfulness?
  • Achieving goals that push your limits?

Train With Intent – Practice like you’re already that future version of yourself.

  • Would your future self skip practice, or would they commit fully?
  • Focus on movements, techniques, and habits that bring meaningful progress.

Make Future-Focused Decisions – Set a training routine, embrace challenges, and approach each session with a long-term mindset.

  • Are you reacting to setbacks, or are you growing from them?

Every day you show up, you’re building momentum. Your future self isn’t a far-off concept—it’s shaped by the choices you make today.

Start training as the person you want to become, and watch how quickly your practice transforms.

Your journey starts now—are you ready to take the first step?

Sifu Oscar

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals. Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.

Build Rock Solid Habits: 2 Smart Strategies

Oscar AgramonteMindset & Philosophy

Let’s talk about building habits without the drama of 7 steps of this, or the complexity of 50 shades of… whatever.

You’ve probably heard the classic advice: Do something for 21 days straight, and boom, a habit is born. Or, just clench three things aggressively (teeth, hands, butt), and voila, problem solved.

But does that really work?
Here are two proven strategies, no clenching required:

  1. Duhigg’s Trigger Trick:
    • Charles Duhigg, the habit guru, suggests focusing not only on the new behavior but also on the trigger that kicks off the old one. Identify that YouTube binge that steals your training time—step one done!
  2. Fogg’s 60-Second Rule:
    • B.J. Fogg from Tiny Habits says your new habit should take only 60 seconds. Want more Kung Fu or Tai Chi? Step two: Commit to just 60 seconds of practice. Make it so easy that it feels like a warm-up, and watch the magic unfold.

Now, let’s apply this to your training:

Example Scenario:

  • Identify the YouTube (or social media) time thief.
  • Commit to 60 seconds of your chosen form or technique.

Result:

  • You’ve simplified your start, and chances are, you’ll end up doing more than just 60 seconds.

So, what do your two habit-building steps look like for you? Hit reply and let me know—I’m curious!

Stay strong,


Sifu Oscar

 

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals. Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.