Tag: empowerment

Control Corner 22 from Sifu Oscar: Your Life, Your Control

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Welcome to the Control Corner, where we explore mastering control in martial arts, health, and life. At Wah Lum, the flipped Chinese character for ‘Fire’ symbolizes control—reminding us that true power starts with taking ownership of our journey.

Essentials: The concept of “locus of control” refers to how much you believe you can influence the events in your life. People with a high internal locus of control understand that their actions and decisions shape their destiny, while those with an external locus blame circumstances or others for their situation.

Why it matters: In martial arts, health, and life, your mindset determines your outcomes. If you approach your training believing you’re a victim of circumstances, you’ve already limited your potential. Success starts with taking full responsibility for your journey and seeing yourself as capable of growth and achievement.

What’s Next: This week, make a powerful commitment to yourself: dedicate 5% of your day (just over an hour) to your well-being. Think of it as a “life insurance policy”—not one that pays out after you’re gone, but one that invests in your longevity and quality of life right now. Whether it’s training, meditation, or health practices, this time is non-negotiable. Are you worth 5% of your day? The answer should be a resounding yes.

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals. Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.

Control Corner 20 from Sifu Oscar: Breaking Free From the Addiction to Problems

Oscar AgramonteSifu Oscar's Blog

Welcome back to the Control Corner! Each week, we explore the philosophy of control—rooted in Wah Lum’s flipped ‘Fire’ character—and how it applies to martial arts, health, and life. Ready to take charge? Let’s begin!

Essentials: What’s the biggest addiction in the world? It’s not food or opiates—it’s problems. Problems allow us to justify our worth, even when we doubt ourselves. They give us excuses: “It’s not my fault, I have (enter diagnosis here)” or “I can’t because of this.” The question is, how are your problems meeting your needs?

Here’s the truth: Fear feeds these illusions. But most of what you fear isn’t real. You are far more powerful than anything fear throws your way. As the saying goes, “You get what you tolerate in life.”

Why It Matters: Controlling Your Health isn’t just about physical fitness. It’s about empowerment—the opposite of being stuck in excuses or letting problems define your path. True fitness is the ability to tackle any task and expand your life in ways you didn’t expect.

Don’t get trapped in the either/or mindset. Life isn’t about finding the answer; it’s about trusting in simple, logical truths and taking steps forward.

What’s Next: Take a moment to reflect on the fears or excuses holding you back. Are they real, or are they illusions? Define the goal you’re working toward—and recognize that the journey will elevate all areas of your life.

There are people ready to help, and your first step is simple: Stop tolerating what holds you back. Step into empowerment, face the fear, and trust in your ability to create change.

Control your mindset, and you’ll control your future.

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals. Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.

Control Corner 16 from Sifu Oscar: The Power of Self-Awareness

Oscar AgramonteSifu Oscar's Blog

The flipped ‘Fire’ character at Wah Lum isn’t just a symbol—it’s a reminder that control transforms lives. Welcome to the Control Corner, where we share practical insights each week to help you focus and unlock your potential.

Essentials: Control begins with self-awareness- knowing who you are, owning it, and embracing both your strengths and shortcomings. True control isn’t about perfection; it’s about honesty. 

Why It Matters: When you stop chasing a romanticized version of yourself, accept what you don’t excel at, and lean into what makes you great, everything changes. Execution matters more than ideas, and self-awareness gives you the clarity to move forward with purpose. Accepting yourself isn’t just liberating; it’s your strongest play.  

What’s Next: Reflect on your strengths. What do you do better than most? Where do you struggle? Be honest. Create an environment where you – and others – can speak the truth without fear. Use that truth to fuel your next move.

 

P.S. Whenever you’re ready, here are ways we can help you get started.

1. Schedule a time to observe a class.
Interested in Kung Fu or Tai Chi?  First step is to watch a class and see if we would be a good fit! Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for an appointment.

2. Become part of my exclusive Coaching Group with CYH Remote Coaching.  Get personalized coaching delivered right to your phone and catered to your specific goals. Email: kungfu@wahlum.com for info.